Reprinted with permission from The Monmouth Journal, by Muriel Smith ~ Pet owners receive special care at Noah’s Ark  MANASQUAN – Kevin Orender knows how to help people who grieve the loss of a loved one. As a licensed funeral director, he has been doing that for four decades, both in Staten Island, where he was raised, and New Jersey, when he and his family moved here. He has worked for numerous other funeral directors, then established his own family owned business, the Orender Family Home for Funerals, in 2004.   But Orender, who also happens to be deputy-mayor of Wall Township, having been elected to his first three-year term last November, knows that people sometimes grieve as much over the